You don't have to be cold as ice and freeze up when talking with anyone. Allow loving positive self talk to flow threw you naturally! For many we take on the harsh energy as our own and store it in our stomachs and causing us to feel the guilt and denial of life from others. Know that there's no competition in life. You must not let others take away your hopes and dreams. We must raise our vibrational energy to allow the laws of nature to flow threw us naturally without suppressing them. The law of attraction is a powerful thing; must work moment by moment to let go of all that doesn't serve us, use good discernment, positivity with love are the keys to greatness!